Love My Wife But Marriage Is Loveless

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To the person that wrote, I love my wife but our marriage is loveless. I am so sad to hear that you feel that way. Sometimes when marriages grow cold it didn’t start out that way. It is just like dust on furniture. Things continue to build up until one day you look and say hey something is wrong here, I need to get this cleaned up. Then you pick up a dust cloth and some furniture polish and take care of the situation.

Marriage is no different, sometimes you have to clean things up. You know why the dust is able to settle? It is because there is no activity. Furniture is stationary. Marriages are not designed to be stationary, they are to be active, alive and full of power. “Dust” can’t settle on an active relationship. You can restart by purposing to see your wife as you used to and work towards doing things with her that you did in the past that excited her. And not just her but the both of you.

A loveless situation can be changed with lots of work. But the work does not have to be difficult, it can be fun. Start communicating with each other, find out at what point in your marriage the dust began to settle and then reverse the situation. Read my post save your marriage in 3 words, see my about page for support. Don’t give up, the same you that loved her with passion in the past is still there, it just needs to be jump started and the same for her. May God bless your efforts and bring unity and a new fire in the relationship.